Graduating college in any number of years is an accomplishment to be proud of.
To the person that isn’t graduating on time,
It sucks, and I won’t lie to you and tell you it doesn’t. The day you walk out of Advising, head hanging down because you aren’t going to finish in four years, makes you feel ashamed of yourself. You did well in high school; you were always told you were smart, expected to be smart, so why couldn’t you make it out in four years like you were supposed to?
You know you’re going to have to tell your family, so you begin preparing yourself for the worst reactions possible. And telling your friends you won’t be graduating with them will only add to that sense of hopelessness.
Soon, you’ll see photos and posts from people you left high school with, talking about graduation and the wonderful lives they are about to begin in their new careers. You’ll wonder how they did it, and you’ll feel like a failure.
But you’re not.
Graduating from college is a huge deal. It really is. And it will be no less of an accomplishment in five, six, or 10 years.
“According to the Department of Education, fewer than 40 percent of students who enter college each year graduate within four years, while almost 60 percent of students graduate in six years. At public schools, less than a third of students graduate on time.”
Things happen. You might change your major. You might have financial troubles. You may take a year off to figure out exactly what you want to do. That’s okay. Take all the time you need. The real world and your career will still be there whenever you graduate.
Guess what else. Your family will still love you, and your friends will still support you. Give them some credit. Your loved ones want you to be happy and successful. Don’t get me wrong, they may be upset at first, but give them a chance. Odds are, when the emotions settle, they will go right back to asking how classes are going. And when you do get the news that you’ll be graduating, they will celebrate with you, and they will be there in the crowd, waiting for you to walk across that stage.
Graduation will happen. If you attend your class and study hard, it will happen. There is no reason to rush. Just do your best. Try your hardest. Take classes when you can. Just by doing that, you’re doing more than so many others are able to do.
“Among 18 countries tracked by the OECD, the United States finished last (46 percent) for the percentage of students who completed college once they started it.”
You’ll get there. Take your time. Enjoy your classes. Find new interests. Study what you love. Embrace opportunities. Study abroad. Take that weird elective class. This is your time to take in everything the world has to offer. Take advantage of that. You’ll graduate when you graduate, filled with pride and wisdom. And when they call your name, and you walk across that stage, hold your head up high, because you’ve earned every bit of your degree.
Graduating from college takes countless hours of studying, long hours in the library, and a tremendous amount of dedication. Don’t add pressure to yourself by setting a timer. It is completely okay to graduate when you graduate, and it is still something to be proud of.
Best Wishes,
A woman who is finally graduating
This article was originally published by The Odyssey.
